Bonus Years
Two months is a long time to go between blog posts. Five days after my last post of May 22, my husband Charlie, known to many of you as the Dear Husband, died. He had been diagnosed in 2022 with congestive heart failure, a condition that was managed very well with medication until his heart simply started to wear out.
Even though I am profoundly sad at losing my husband, I celebrate the fact that we had so many bonus years together. You see, Charlie lived to be 101. When we got married in 1981, he was 56 years old and I was 30. It was the second marriage for both of us, and we are proof that love is indeed lovelier the second time around. The age difference was never an issue; he was active and vigorous in his 50s and remained so well into his 90s. He was also young at heart, which made living with him a joy.
Because of Charlie’s age at the time of our marriage, I had the reasonable expectation that we would have at least 30 years together. That would have taken him to age 86. Every year after that was a bonus year. I never dreamed he would live long enough for us to celebrate our 45th wedding anniversary! (I wrote a post in April which includes a photo of Dream Weaver, the quilt I made for him as an anniversary gift; you can read that post here.)
My twin sister Diane arrived in early May for a month-long visit and postponed her departure when it became clear Charlie’s life was coming to an end. She’s back home now but her presence before he died and for the six weeks following his passing was a great source of comfort, and I’m so grateful she was here.
Now you know why my posts have been few and far between. It wasn’t just the extra gardening chores I took on for Charlie. It was because caring for him was my number one priority. I will miss him every day for the rest of my life but I have many happy memories of our time together to sustain me.
He would be happy to know I’ll be returning to my sewing room — but I won’t neglect the garden! My promise to him was to keep our urban vegetable garden going. As a matter of fact, I picked our second tomato today, the bush beans are coming along nicely, and the herb garden is doing splendidly. The Dear Husband would be delighted.


These four blocks make up the fourth row, bringing the total to 20:
























I could visualize these prints in a kaleidoscope quilt with the reindeer fussy-cut to show them off to best advantage. But I needed a few more fabrics. Back home in Portland I raided my stash and added these to the mix:



